“Just a Note to Let You Know…” How to Write the Perfect Wedding “Thank You” Cards

Who Gets a “Thank You” Note?

Everyone who gives you a wedding gift should receive a timely thank you note, even if you’ve already thanked the giver verbally. Handwritten notes show a certain level of appreciation that every human being craves. It also shows you care.

Although standard American etiquette dictates that you have up until one year to send your wedding thank you notes, it’s better practice to send them as soon as you arrive form your honeymoon.

The Perfect Wedding Gift “Thank You” Note

Dear Jane and John Smith,

I’m admiring the 1. lovely ceramic bowl you bought and can’t help but to think 2. how lovely it will look on our holiday table. It really is beautiful, and Lester and I love it.

We may be in the NYC area early next year; if we are, 3. we would love to stop by to visit with you and catch up like old times.

Again, 4. thank you so much for the lovely gift.

5. We love you!

James and Sally

  1. Mention the gift in a complimentary fashion (do not overexaggerate!)
  2. State how you intend to use the gift
  3. Be social and state plans to keep in touch
  4. Final thanks
  5. Warm sentiments reiterated

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